The one your words really hit

What you say offhand is heavy for them.

You said "that's weird" lightly, and they minded it forever.

ENFP's words hit ISFJ.

ENFPA♥The adventure leader

Starts new things right away.
Gets on with anyone.
Bad at keeping going.

ENFP's page

ISFJQ♣The gatekeeper

Watching whether you can be trusted.
Never forgets betrayal.
New things are scary.

ISFJ's page

Good stuff

They think you're amazing.
Your praise works best of all.

Watch out

Something you said lightly wounds them.
They're tense in front of you.

How to make it work

Praise. Don't correct.
Keep a little distance.

Gifts

ENFP → Good food, things that feel good.
ISFJ → Something useful. Something that saves effort.

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40jk = 4 letters, 0 seconds. Joker & King.
The long version (mechanics, records, real pairs) is on the main site.
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Four letters can change every time you take the test. Read it without deciding anyone is a type. Read first: about typing